It is crucial to note that the mainstream LGBTQ culture overwhelmingly rejects TERF ideology. Polls show that over 80% of LGB individuals support trans rights. However, the loud minority has created a trauma bond between trans people and their cisgender queer allies. The phrase has become a litmus test for entry into modern queer spaces.

The story is ongoing. While the community celebrates major wins in and visibility, the focus has shifted toward protecting trans youth and ensuring that "Pride" remains a protest for the most vulnerable members of the fold.

For the L, G, and B, "coming out" is primarily about honesty. A gay man remains a man; a lesbian remains a woman. Their core identity is about attraction. The struggle is external: "Will my family accept my partner?"