It sounds like you're dealing with a sensitive situation. When you're attracted to someone else's family member, especially a parent, it can be confusing and uncomfortable. Here are some steps you might consider:
Forbidden situations naturally spike dopamine and excitement. It sounds like you're dealing with a sensitive situation
Attraction is often fueled by familiarity and "forbiddenness." Because she is off-limits, your brain may be projecting an idealized version of her. You see the mother in controlled, social settings where she is likely composed and "put together." Meanwhile, you see the raw, unfiltered, everyday reality of your girlfriend. It’s an unfair comparison—one is a highlight reel, the other is the full movie. 2. The Power of "Mature" Allure Attraction is often fueled by familiarity and "forbiddenness
When you are around her, consciously focus on your girlfriend. Remind yourself of the qualities that made you fall for her in the first place. you see the raw
You could cause a permanent rift between a mother and daughter.